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In 2004, Michael Burke and Robert Charles wrote a letter to then Illinois State Senator Barack Obama and enclosed a modest check of support for his campaign for the U.S. Senate.

In the letter they told State Senator Obama that they “enthusiastically” supported his candidacy for U.S. Senate, but were disappointed to learn “that while you support civil unions you do not support gay marriage. While we understand the political calculation of such a strategy … we are disturbed by the moral dissonance that such a stance tolerates.”

They mailed the letter off to Obama’s Hyde Park address, hoping to sidestep the hoops of his campaign office. Imagine their surprise when they received two to three weeks later what appeared to be a personalized reply from State Senator Obama explaining in detail the political history and strategy informing his stance.

What was truly amazing to Burke and Charles was the last paragraph of the letter: “Let me end by thanking you for your support in this campaign. I’ve enclosed the check you wrote, just so that you can consider my response before offering further support. Warm Regards, Barack Obama.”

The couple was floored. Could this be yet another political ruse to garner their support? What kind of politician — especially in Chicago — returns a campaign check?

“I still get goose bumps thinking about it,” Burke said.

Although neither is rolling in dough — Burke is an author and freelance writer, and Charles is a magician and founder of Magic Chicago — they were so awestruck by the state senator’s high ground that they sent Barack Obama a second check — for double the first amount.

Today, Burke and Charles are thrilled by President Barack Obama’s May 9, 2012, statement “Same-sex couples should be able to get married.”

And although they sound a note of caution in celebrating the president’s position on behalf of civil rights, they are more hopeful than they have ever been.

In 2004, “We actually had a glimmer of hope that someone could be elected into office such as Barack Obama and he could help move civil rights further ahead,” Charles said. ” We are actually seeing that happening now.”

“While the game is still playing out in state legislature and in the courts, the president has set the goal posts. The president very forcefully said yesterday, ‘The goal is gay marriage,’” Burke said. He added, laughing: “I’d like to get married before I turn 60.”

Will Burke and Charles be writing President Obama another letter any time soon?

“We’ve talked about this,” Burke said. “It will be four words, ‘Thank you, Mr. President.”

“Short and sweet,” Charles said.

Sally Duros

Digital Strategist and Independent Journalist. Lifelong Chicagoan and perpetual optimist. Blogger for BlockbyBlock.us

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The Accountability Newsroom

My most dangerous idea for pushing the boundaries of journalism is to use the powers of a newsroom to change the culture and processes of government.

What I propose is a kind of Wikileaks meets Facebook meets Undercover Boss.

Or think of it as Six Sigma — internal process engineering — meets Facebook – external social media feedback — moderated with conversation guided by a type of ombudsman newsroom that the politician at the top MUST pay attention to.

The Accountability Newsroom is my most dangerous idea for pushing the boundaries of journalism.

(my apologies for the slight rocking in the video. I had to hold the laptop to get the right light and angle)

Sally Duros

Digital Strategist and Independent Journalist. Lifelong Chicagoan and perpetual optimist. Blogger for BlockbyBlock.us

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How good girls become fast girls online through sexting and social media

OK. I have a question for you wise ones particularly you moms and dads and social media wizards. I’d really like to hear from you teens out there. I have a few resources in mind, but I need your thoughts and inspired suggestions.

We’ll call this a hypothetical.

Say you are a mom of a 16 year old girl. Say your daughter is very bright and beautiful and going to one of the most prestigious gifted high schools in her town. Say she has fallen in with a crowd that thinks the game “F**K, Marry or Kill” is Fun, and thinks that oral sex is not really sex. She is a good student but has had stress around school performance. She has been a girl who has known her value in the world. Her family is loving and caring, but mom is going out of her mind with worry because not only does previously sweet daughter think oral sex is not sex, she and her boyfriend appear to be addicted to sexting and other sexually provocative behavior on various social media, including Facebook and Tumblr.

Mom fears this amounts to a pornography addiction. Mom has intervened stridently with daughter, boyfriend and with boyfriend’s mom – who doesn’t seem to care. Mom and daughter are locked in disagreement. Dad has been asked to intervene.

I see a few women authors are active in this world of the teen girl. Leora Tanenbaum, author of Slut, wrote this recently. Also Rachel Simmons, author of Odd Girl Out, seems very active in this sphere.

Where would you point this mom and family to for support? Also, do you know of social media “erasing” and monitoring services that could be useful? I know of a few under development. Thoughts and reax?

Sally Duros

Digital Strategist and Independent Journalist. Lifelong Chicagoan and perpetual optimist. Blogger for BlockbyBlock.us

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